
These events are sold out weeks in advance, and I had only bought enough tickets for Amy and her parents, since Aaron and I were going to be at baseball practice. Only practice was cancelled on account of rain. So I could've gone...but no tickets.
First Aaron and then Amy told me Jada was crying, so I went up to have a chat. I gave her room to cry and then to express herself verbally. I told her I wanted to go but couldn't, but could Mommy take videos and then I could watch it with her and she could provide some commentary while I was watching? I also told her a story about how just that morning, I was thinking of all our trips to Reading Terminal Market when she was younger to get the #1 at Sang Kee and I made her promise me that if she went off to college out of town, that when she came back home we could go to Sang Kee together.
This little father-daughter moment together seemed to soothe her. My heart was warmed at the thought of Jada hurting that I couldn't be there to watch her, but that there have been many other times that I could, and there will be many other times that I can. How precious and fleeting are our special interactions with our kids, and I intend to not take any for granted.
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