I absolutely adore when people tell me they love following
my family on social media. It’s part of
what’s great about posting and viewing pics online, is sharing in milestones
and enjoying vacations vicariously and basking in the cuteness that is your
kids and mine. How wonderful to multiply
happiness by sharing in it.
But I don’t have to tell you that being a parent isn’t all
sunshine and smiles. All three of our
kids have special challenges that we as parents struggle to handle and love our
kids through. Both the toddler and
pre-teen years are emotionally fraught times that have placed unique strains on
this harried mom and dad. And, for some
same and some different reasons, we fear for the very physical safety of our
children every day, whether because of their gender or race or because of the
proliferation of guns or bullying.
As you may know, I am not an inherently warm and cuddly
person. Nor am I predisposed to hover
over my kids at every moment to keep them close and safe. As a parent who desires to prepare his kids
for the future, and who has tried to take a clear-eyed approach to the risks
they will face in life, I lean towards putting them out on a limb and watching
them learn and stretch and grow from it.
I do not plan to change the strategy. But I do realize that they are ever in harm’s
way, sometimes for choices they make, sometimes for who they are independent of
any fault of theirs, and sometimes because of the cruel randomness of it
all. And there are times that that
terrifies me. Pray for our kids, as I
pray for all our kids. May God protect
us all.
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