I’m happy to report that Jada and
Aaron’s relationship with each other is…normal.
They have things they enjoy doing together. They gang up on Amy and me when it serves
them, and rat each other out when that is expedient. They fight with one another – thankfully, not
physically, unless you count “get out of my space” and “stop poking me.”
Of course, they’re not just siblings,
they’re big sis and little bro. Other
parents of such a combination can verify if this is normal or not, but it all
seems logical to me. Jada has her close
girl friends, covets her privacy, wants to see the world, and is easily annoyed
by Aaron’s childish behavior. Aaron is
hyper-social but his friendships lack depth at this juncture, he doesn’t
understand why Jada needs her space, and is often hurt when she pushes him away
or doesn’t let him in.
Time will tell how these experiences
imprint on their respective characters and personalities. Hopefully, they’ll maintain a close
relationship – they are, after all, each other’s only sibling – and look back
fondly on their childhood. I know Amy
and I are doing our darnedst to enjoy the present even as we try to prepare
them for the future.
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